Battle of the Mind Part 1

Hello beautiful people i hope you all are great. Oh! you ever read something of your own and be like,oh i wrote this? Mmmm what influence was I under?  I just was in my files about to publish today's post and found this piece and i thought let me share it here, i hope you find it useful... It will come in two parts because it is rather long. So grab a cup of coffee, tea, glass of water or whatever food or drink that you best enjoy when you are reading and enjoy. This is rather an advice piece if i may say,so there you go...

“BATTLES ARE FOUGHT AND WON IN THE MIND” says one famous quote… which is where it all begins!!!

The reason why many of us do not make it in life is that we doubt ourselves all the time. Even when we know that it is us who came up the brilliant idea or suggestion we still seek someone’s approval to make it happen, someone who confirms that it makes sense whilst at the same time we selling off our brilliant ideas at no cost at all. Why for once will not you believe in yourself? The reason why some people make it in life is that they think of the very same idea and wait for no one to give them a go ahead that it is the right way to take and they make things happen. Ever wondered why some people go big in life starting from nothing at all, they make things happen. It all starts in the mind. The mind is the hub of all greatest technologies ever invented. It is in the mind where you tell yourself I will do it and you surely do it in the end.

The fact that you are not where you are supposed to be right now should be an indicator that should motivate you get out of your comfort zone.

After the realization that there are some things we rarely take seriously, but are those little things that if taken seriously can change our lives positively, it hit the surface that it is high-time we started to make these little things realized.

We barely believe in ourselves, our capabilities, what we are good at, oh well we do that very well, self-pity and lots of complaining. Who do I mean by “we”? I mean us the young people. Well at least I realized it did nothing for me instead it made me more bitter and bitter each day I complained and sobbed about the wrong things in my life without doing anything about it, would it change a thing if you complain? The answer is no. Did it change a thing for me, the answer is still no. I realized I had to be that person who makes things happen and stop complaining about the things that still stayed the way they were or even get worse because there is nothing that I was doing to make them change.

I am positive that most of us have come across the saying that says that there are three different kinds of people as far as making things happen is concerned: there are those that watch others make things happen and those who wait to see things happen and finally my favourite ones, well for everybody else I guess, those that make things happen, but, but it is not easy , hell is out there , it takes a strong will mind to make things happen and not be the one that waits for things to happen.

Surround yourself with doers and not wishers. Be the backbone that makes the body function and not the Jawbone that just does the talking or the wishbone that wishes and do not act, they say action speaks louder than words, yes they really do. Even the good book says,“ Bad company corrupts good character,’ the crowd you spend time with has an impact on the freewill of your mind. If you place yourself amongst hard workers, eventually you will be pushed to work hard, unless if you are really damaged goods that do a lot of complaining and comparing which is the wrong attitude towards life, you will never get out of it alive.

What is the point here? Point is; even if the situation is pressing you so hard and very much not allowing, if you wait for the right conditions to come you will never get anything done. Besides even opportunities await you to realize them, only when you knock through the door it gets opened for you, by just standing at the door and not knocking how do you expect the people inside to realize the need to open the door? There are even many a time when opportunities present themselves and we do not realize or identify them simply because we wait along assuming greatness is sown on perfect grounds, which is not the case.

Yes, right in your mind is where everything happens, just so you know your mind doesn't know the difference between reality and fiction. Ever wondered why you cry when you are watching a movie, and you actually know its just a movie, but you cry anyway? Your mind can "create" and "destroy"so take advantage of that...

We the young people should stop complaining a lot and stop not doing anything to help ourselves. Yes it is axiomatic that our economies are not allowing for us to flourish our potential but what are you doing about your situation? It is no secret that things are difficult, but they are like that for everybody. What will just complaining do? Will it make the situation better? Just like people who argue that money is the root of all evil, does not having it make you righteous? The same way complaining about bad situations whilst just lying idle would that make the situation better in any way? Begin to think on your feet. Use the talents that you already have, if you are good writer write, if you are good at art, do it, a journey of a thousand miles started with just a step. Get out of your comfort zone, explore all opportunities keep going, never back down, just when you are about to get there that is when it gets tougher... 

by yours truly Christine

It is important for you to note that your mind is the most powerful weapon you own,i have said this before and i will say it again. JUST DO IT, whatever your dream is, it's high time it stopped being a "dream" , make it a "plan"!!!  Part two is coming in a minute stay tuned...

Stay young, stay beautiful and be a game changer!!! XOXO

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